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Parents in Classrooms Offer Valuable Lessons

According to three decades of research from the national PTA, the earlier parents get involved, the more their kids benefit. Overall, students with involved parents are more likely to earn better grades, pass their classes, attend school regularly, improve their social skills and adapt well to the school environment. They're also more likely to pursue education past high school.

To become a classroom volunteer, start by checking with your school's PTA/PTO, the principal's office or your child's teacher to find out if there is a volunteer program in your child's school. Even if there isn't an organized program, individual teachers will often ask parents to help with field trips or in-class projects.

Many schools and parent-teacher groups provide a handbook and a written code of ethics for volunteers. The most critical guideline is to follow through on your commitment, whether it's an hour a week or two hours a month. "A volunteer must be dependable and consistent," stresses one ethics code.

Traditionally, most parent volunteers have been moms. But with flextime and more stay-at-home dads, men are volunteering, too. The national PTA, started a group called MORE (Men Organized to Raise Engagement) "dedicated to raising the level of engagement between children and the important men in the lives."

"Men who participate in children's lives increase their potential for success - and when both parents are involved, a child can achieve almost anything," emphasizes Charles J. Saylors, the PTA's first ever male national president.

The National Center for Fathering has also introduced a program called WATCH D.O.G.S. (Dads Of Great Students). "When dads and granddads came into our school for a one-day program, the students loved it and benefited from all the attention," reports Kathy, a third-grade teacher.

You've always hoped your kids would get the education they need to prepare them for a good life and financially sound future. As their most influential role model, you can take big strides to assuring their success by becoming a classroom volunteer.

Teachable Moments

"Most moms want to volunteer in their own child's classroom," notes Beth, a first-grade teacher. But there can be problems with favoritism and privacy issues.

Before you volunteer the first day, talk to your child about what to expect.

Describe how you will be assisting the teacher. It helps your child to know what you will be doing there. For example, grading papers or offering guidance during inclass assignments.

  • Urge your child to talk to the teacher when having problems with classmates. Parent volunteers should respect the teacher's role as the leader of the classroom.
  • Explain you will not be able to work with your child one-on-one and that your attention will need to be focused on where the teacher needs your help. In many cases, that may include working with small groups of children.